Safety
Safety Tips
Your safety is our highest priority. These tips help you protect yourself online and when meeting someone in person.
Last updated: March 1, 2026
Online Safety
- Never share your home address, workplace, school, or daily routines with someone you just matched with
- Use Afterly's in-app messaging — be cautious of people who immediately push you to move to another platform
- Do not share financial information, send money, or buy gift cards for someone you haven't met in person
- Be skeptical of profiles that seem too good to be true, push intimacy unusually fast, or make unusual financial requests — these are common signs of romance scams
- Use a strong, unique password for your Afterly account and enable device-level security (Face ID / PIN)
- Review what personal information is visible on your profile — you can hide your exact location, age, and distance in settings
Afterly will never ask for your password via email, message, or phone. If you receive such a request, it is a phishing attempt — report it to contact@chasersocialllc.com immediately.
Identity & Catfishing
- Use Afterly's AI identity verification feature to verify your own profile and look for the verified badge (✓) on others
- If you suspect a profile is fake, use the in-app report feature — select "Fake or Catfish"
- Video chat with a match before agreeing to meet in person — it's the best way to confirm someone is who they say they are
- Be cautious if someone always has an excuse to avoid video calls
- Reverse-image-search profile photos if you have doubts (drag the photo into Google Images)
Meeting In Person
When you decide to take a connection offline, take these precautions:
- Meet for the first time in a public, busy place — coffee shops, restaurants, or parks
- Tell a trusted friend or family member where you're going, who you're meeting, and when you expect to be back
- Share your live location with a friend via your phone's native location-sharing feature
- Arrange your own transportation to and from the meeting — don't rely on your date for a ride
- Keep your phone charged and bring a portable charger if possible
- Have a check-in plan — if you haven't texted a friend by a certain time, they should call you
- Trust your instincts — if something feels off, it's okay to leave
- Stay sober enough to make clear decisions
Sensitive Information & Privacy
As a trans or gender-diverse person, you may share sensitive information on Afterly that you don't share publicly. We take extra care with this:
- Your gender identity, medical details, and profile content are only visible to other logged-in users — not indexed by search engines
- Use Afterly's Incognito Mode (Settings → Privacy) to browse without appearing in other people's discovery
- Use the "Visibility: Liked-Only" setting to only appear to users who have already liked you — great for maximum control
- Block someone to immediately prevent them from seeing your profile or messaging you
- If someone shares your private information outside the app without consent, report it and contact us — this is a direct violation of our guidelines
Responding to Unwanted Contact
- You are never obligated to respond to a match or message
- Unmatch or block someone at any time — they won't be notified and cannot see your profile afterward
- Use the Report button (⋮ on their profile) to flag harassment, fake profiles, or guideline violations
- If someone threatens you, screenshot the evidence and report to us and to local law enforcement
- If the situation is an emergency, call 911 or your local emergency services immediately
Resources
- Trans Lifeline (US): 877-565-8860 — peer support by and for trans people
- Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741
- NCTE (National Center for Trans Equality): transequality.org
- RAINN Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)
- National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
To report a safety issue on Afterly, email contact@chasersocialllc.com or use the in-app Report function on any profile or message.
Questions about this page? contact@chasersocialllc.com
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